This week I really struggled to think of a topic to write about for this blog. That was until I came across one of my friends’ blogs about overcoming obstacles. As I was reading her blog,(Side note: If you want to check out the blog post I mention the link is: https://ashleemelda.wordpress.com/2015/04/14/do-not-let-your-struggle-become-your-identity/), it was like a light bulb went on over my head and I knew exactly what I was going to talk about.
It is no secret that everyone goes through obstacles throughout their life, no matter if they are differently abled or able-bodied. It could be an obstacle of trying to find the right job, or something more serious as learning to walk again after having a major surgery, or something small as battling writers block and trying to figure out what to write for a blog post.
Over the past few months I have had an issue with getting my balance down in the car port and near my friend’s car. For months I would feel like I could not walk without holding onto anything, or else I would lose my balance and fall, when I have been able to do this many times all by myself in the past. This became a constant thing and also became very frustrating. It was like there was an invisible wall there and I kept running into it.
After so many times, and many countless talks with my friend on what the hang up was, I realized that it was all a mental thing. Something switched in my brain to let me know that I could not do it without an aid, when I know I am very capable with walking without anything.
So how have I overcome this obstacle you ask? Well, to be honest, I still struggle with it, but it has gotten better. When I go downstairs I just make sure that I do not focus so much on holding on to anything, because I have noticed that is what screws me up in the first place. I also tell myself that it is only about a 100 ft. walk and that I can do it and that I am strong enough to do it.
If you are struggling with an obstacle in your life and you feel like it will never go away, I would like to encourage you to keep pushing forward. You may be struggling right now, but that does not mean that it will last forever (even though it may feel like it sometimes). Talk to family or friends about your obstacle and see if they have any advice on how to overcome it. I know that if I did not have the support of my friend who wanted to see me overcome it because she knew I could, I would not be where I am today.
Having one true friend is better than having a thousand acquaintances! 🙂
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Very true 😊
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Nothing lasts forever & self belief can get you through any barrier you may face! ❤
Great post hun 🙂 x
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Very true! Thanks! 😊
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A while ago, I read a fantastic quote from a fellow blogger, which I immediately wrote down and put up on my wall: “Allow yourself to be vulnerable. It’s the only way to grow.” Overcoming obstacles isn’t easy, but it’s so rewarding! Keep on keeping on, Katy!
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I ❤️ that! I may just have to steal it! Thanks Britta! 😊
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Also, I feel like I should give credit where credit is due. The quote comes from Hagen, who hasn’t been super active lately in the blogosphere lately, but is still super awesome. http://capturedwanderlust.com/
You’re most welcome! 🙂
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Sweet! I’ll check them out! 😊
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Great reminder about persistence! Awesome:)
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Thanks! 😊
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The whole mind body connection is true. I use to tell my special needs students to say they can not cannot because what you say to yourself becomes reality. So glad you have such a great friend!
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Very true! Positive self talk is so important
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We are on the same page. Always refreshing . Encounter positive people.
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Reblogged this on bdlheart and commented:
This young woman is such an inspiration! If you are struggling today read this post for encouragement. And check out the rest of her blog.
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Thanks for the kind words and reblog 😊
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Welcome look forward to reading more of your work.
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Obstacles are opportunities, obstacles are opportunities, I hear this all the time and yet struggle to really see them as doors of opportunity when I’m facing them. Beautiful post thank you.
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It can be difficult to see at times, but worth it in the end. You are very welcome! Thanks for stopping by 😊
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Right now I’m suffering from a concussion, my mind does not work the way I’d like it to. But because I am unable to work, unable to walk, unable to drive my car, unable to be the person that I have always been I have rediscovered the joy that I’ve always known in writing. Thank you for connecting. Namaste
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